Hello my dear, Daniela here, and welcome ack to the Spa Marketing Made Easy Podcast. If you are new here, I am so glad that you found us. This podcast is all about helping esthetic professionals like you build a business that is profitable, sustainable and built around the life that you actually want to live.

Okay, so today I want to revisit a topic that I’ve covered before on this show, but I’m revisiting it with a very specific intention, because the landscape, if you haven’t noticed, the landscape, has shifted so significantly in the past couple of years that I believe that this strategy, which was already powerful when I first talked about it. It’s really in a space that it’s it’s essential, it’s a non negotiable, and I don’t say that lightly. Now I believe deeply in strategic partnerships. Specifically, I want to talk about why building real relationship first collaborations with other local businesses is one of the biggest competitive advantages that you have as a spa owner in 2026 now, if you’ve been listening to this show for a while, you might remember episode 397, 397, where I did a deep dive on the how behind strategic partnerships, so how to identify potential partners, how to vet them, how to reach out, how to structure something that actually works for both businesses. We’re going to link that up below this episode so you can still go back and listen to it or get a refresher if you’ve already listened to it before. It is still relevant. That framework still holds up. But what I want to do in today’s episode is really zoom out. I want to talk about why the world that we’re operating in right now, in 2026 makes this strategy more urgent and really more powerful than it’s ever been. Because the reasons I was excited about partnerships, you know, year and a half, two years ago, they’re still true, and yet, there are brand new reasons layered on top of them that I think are going to completely change how you think about where your marketing energy should be going. Okay, so let’s get into it.

So I want to start by talking about your ideal client, and specifically her experience of the Internet, what it looks like right now in 2026 because I think when we really sit with this, the case for relationship marketing becomes impossible to argue with. Now your ideal client, just like you as a human being, they and you are being marketed to constantly, every platform she’s on, every search she does, every app she’s opened. She is being served ads, content and recommendations at a volume that was not even possible three years ago, and a significant and growing percentage of that content is AI generated AI written captions, AI generated images. Ai produced emails. Ai optimized ads. Now, just to be clear, I am not anti AI. I am actually in the deep end of the pool. I’m using AI in every single aspect that I can but the difference is that using AI is a skill, and if you don’t know how to use AI properly, you are going to get extremely generic, boring content that you know we we’ve said for years, the brand that does everything is the brand that does nothing if you’re not giving the tool, the AI tool, the information to properly create content that sounds like you, the nuanced things you’re going to get junk and because it’s such a low barrier to entry, and there’s not very many People that are really skilled in understanding how to get quality content out there is just a onslaught of information that’s being put out there, the captions, the images, the emails, all of that. Now I am very pro AI. We are an AI first company.

However, we want to use it on all of the administrative tasks, on all the things that will save us time so that we can have more time for human connection. That is the really important piece of the sentence, the so that all right, so we use AI inside of our business. Every single day. We teach spa owners how to use it to dramatically improve their operations and their marketing output. It is a very powerful tool that I believe in deeply. But here’s the reality of what’s happening from the consumer side. Right? When I said the brand that does everything is the brand that does nothing.

Everything starts to look and sound the same, the content is. Is polished and optimized, but somehow it feels like it could come from anyone. When that happens, your trust erodes, and we actually, I’m just going to do like a little side note here, just to convey like how crazy this is. When we had our event in Texas, we had our spa CEO event in Texas, and that was, you know, there’s primarily, it’s our growth factor students that are coming to these events, but we do open them up to the public towards as the event gets closer.

And we had someone come to our Texas event that said, I didn’t know if Daniela was real or not, or if everything she was, like, if she was an AI generated being, and I wanted to see her in person. I was like, That is a first. I am real. You can, you can give me a hug when you see me in person. But it was just like, I was like, Wow, I’ve never heard that before, and that is probably something that we will continue to hear going forward. So anyway, the important piece, especially in an industry like ours, is that it is built on trust, right? We’re going to be in relationship with our patients, and we’re going to be touching her face and touching her skin and hearing what she’s insecure about. Trust is essential. It’s something that we absolutely need to take very seriously. So what does your ideal client do when she doesn’t know who to trust online? She’s going to ask someone she already trusts in real life. She’s going to ask her friend who has great skin. She’s going to ask the instructor at her Pilates studio. She’s going to ask her hairstylist. She might even go into a local Facebook group. This is word of mouth. Okay, word of mouth has always been powerful, but in a world saturated with AI generated content, with rising ad costs, with algorithm fatigue, it’s one of those things that we need to have it in a way that we can kind of control the output that was always the problem with word of mouth is like, you know, with ads, you can increase your ad spend and get more people in with word of mouth, you don’t have as much control over your own marketing strategy, and we have a little more control when we work with strategic partners. Okay, so strategic partnerships are how you systematically build the infrastructure that makes word of mouth happen consistently, not just when you get lucky, but is a real reliable, repeatable system. And you know, we love systems over here. So let’s get into paid ads. I was just talking about paid ads, but I think this is a really important concept for why partnerships also have become so strategically critical in 2026 now I shared before in that episode 397 about a lesson that I learned to the hard way around AD costs. So I’ve been running ads that were performing really well, and then in the lead up to a major election cycle, the cost spiked dramatically, and the return just completely collapsed, not because my ads were bad, but because or not because my offer was wrong, but because I was competing for limited ad space against campaigns with budgets that like made mine just completely insignificant, and so my cost per lead went through the roof. So that experience taught me something that I have never forgotten, and that is that I do not want all of my eggs in one basket ever. And that lesson applies even more powerfully today. So ad cost across Facebook, Instagram, Google, they are continuing to climb. The competition for attention is higher than it has ever been, and it’s not going to get lower. Friends and as AI, makes it easier and cheaper for every single business to produce more content and run more ads, the noise level is only going to increase, which means the cost of cutting through that noise with paid advertising is only going to go up. Now I’m not telling you to abandon paid ads. We are investing heavily in paid ads. We use them very strategically, but we are also extremely dialed in on who our ICA is, okay. So when you use ads strategically.

They absolutely still work, and they’re still a part of a well rounded marketing approach. But what I’m saying is that if paid advertising is your primary or your only strategy for new client acquisition, you’re building on a foundation that is getting more expensive and less reliable every single. Whole year. Now, strategic partnerships, on the other hand, have a very different cost structure. The primary investment is going to be time and genuine relationship building genuine is the key word here and in return. When the partnerships are right, they are going to compound over time, rather than requiring constant reinvestment, a partner who genuinely believes in your work and consistently refers her clients to you is worth more than almost any ad campaign you can run, and she does not cost more every time the algorithm changes. Now there’s something else happening in 2026 that I believe is worth naming, and it connects directly with why local relationship marketing is having such a moment right now. There is a growing trust deficit online. People are becoming increasingly skeptical of the content that they consume, of the reviews that they read, recommendations that they receive from sources they don’t personally know. And that’s normal, right? That’s completely normal when you think about, like, influencer partnerships, how they’re paid, and you know, oftentimes they’re disclosed in a very fine print that nobody reads when everybody’s brand captions and emails and ads sound polished and professional and vaguely the same, and when it’s genuinely hard to tell what is authentic and what is manufactured, people don’t know who to trust, right? So what they’re doing is really focusing on the people that they know, the humans that they can see and touch, that they interact with.

Every single day, they’re trusting their own networks more and more and outside sources less. Now for a local spa owner, this is an enormous opportunity, because you are not a faceless brand. You are a person in a community building real relationships with real people, and the trust that gets built through genuine community presence, through showing up, consistently being involved, through being known and vouched for, for other trusted people in your area, that kind of trust is exactly what your ideal client is hungry for right now, that’s what I’m talking about when I say go out there and be the mayor of your town. It is not just a cute phrase. It is a real competitive strategy. But when you’re a spa owner that you know, other businesses in your community know and trust and genuinely recommend, when you’ve become woven into the fabric of your local business ecosystem, you have something that no amount of ad spend can buy. You have social proof that is personal, specific and trusted, and here’s what makes this even better. Excuse me, excuse me, excuse me. Here’s what makes this even better. Your competitors are probably not doing this. Why? Because it takes time and it takes stepping out of your comfort zone. I’ve told you guys before I am not a fan of large groups of people, and so showing up at your Chamber of Commerce event or a women’s networking group or entrepreneur group or whatever it is, it’s hard, it’s scary, and it takes a lot of time, which I’m guessing most of you don’t feel like you’re swimming in time. So that makes it an even more powerful strategy, because again, so many people are not putting the effort in for this. They’re probably doing what everyone else is doing, which is trying to figure out the algorithm, trying to keep up with content trends, trying to optimize their ad spend, the relationship building that feels slower. It’s less measurable, so it’s going to get moved to the bottom of the to do list, which means that you, if you take up this strategy, if you commit to doing this right, you are going to just keep widening that competitive advantage in your local market. Imagine having your hair stylist and your yoga teacher recommending the same location to get a facial like these places that these businesses, that these individuals are frequenting, if they’re getting recommendations from multiple locations that you are the best spot in town. Imagine how powerful that is when they go and look you up and you’re like, Oh, this is the place to be, right? It’s really, really an incredible thing.

All right, so let’s talk about the mindset piece, okay, that is going to make this all possible, because I think there’s a belief that holds a lot of you back from really committing to this strategy, and again, in 2026 that belief is going to be more costly than ever. And this is the belief that other businesses in your area are your competition. I understand where it comes from. I get it. We live in a culture that frames businesses. Zero sum game, if she gets the client I do not and in a local market, that scarcity mindset can feel very real, especially when things are slow. But listen, this is something that is untrue. I want you to shift your mindset. I want you to operate from a place of abundance. I want you to believe that they’re more than enough clients for everyone. I want you to believe that a rising tide floats all boats when we work together, when you’re competing with what makes you uniquely you, you have no competition. Okay, so support other women in business support other spas celebrate when you see other spas opening, because that indicates that there is more demand in your area. You know, when I was still practicing, there was a spa that I was working at that it just felt like there was a med spa on every single corner, and yet, all of them were thriving. All of them were doing well, like, and thriving. I mean, like, seven figure spas, okay, not just something that is, you know, trying to get to that space, like, really operating and having the capacity to serve at that level. Okay, so keep your energy focused on the positive, on what makes you different, on how you can serve your people above and beyond. When you have that authentic human connection which is so so important, and you have the abundance mindset, it’s not just a nice philosophy, it is a genuine competitive strategy. Now the other piece of the mindset shift is around patience, relationship. Marketing does not produce results overnight. It’s a long game, just like building a business is a marathon, not a sprint, right? And in a world that is increasingly optimized for instant feedback, likes, clicks, conversations and the patience that is required for relationship marketing, oh my gosh.

It feels like you’re walking through molasses, right? But the return on the patients is something that instant feedback loops cannot produce. It’s a network of people who genuinely are rooting for your success, who send you clients, not because of a transaction, but because they believe in you, who become, over time, one of the most valuable assets that your business has. And even better, some of these people are going to become genuine friends, genuine pillars in your life, both personally and professionally. Okay, so let’s bring this home with something practical, because I never want to leave you with just ideas. I want you to walk away with some action items, some things that you can actually do. So if you want the full tactical framework for how to build strategic partnerships, then make sure that you go back and listen to episode 397 again. We’re going to have that linked up. That episode is absolutely worth your time. But for today, I want you to do one thing. I want you to think about your ideal client and ask yourself one question, who else is she already trusting in my community, not who could theoretically be a good partner? Who does she already trust? Who does she already spend money with? Who would she listen to? If that person said you have to go see this spa owner, She’s incredible. Write down three names, three local business owners who serve your ideal client in a different way than you do, businesses whose values feel aligned with yours, businesses who genuinely you respect and admire. And then I want you to start showing up for them, follow them, engage with their content, genuinely visit them. Give them business. Always lead with giving before you think about what you might get in return. And here’s the thing, in a world where everyone is trying to optimize their way to connection, genuinely showing up as a differentiator, and little by little, those small acts of generosity build something that no algorithm can replicate.

That is your homework. Three names. That’s it. I want you to start there. All right, my dears, that is a wrap on today’s episode. If this conversation has shifted something in a way that you are thinking about where your marketing energy should be going right now, good. That is exactly what I hoped for. Go back and listen to episode 397, if you want the full tactical breakdown on how to build your partnership strategy, and then come back here and let me know in the spa marketing Made Easy community what partnerships you’re building. I love hearing what you guys are up to now, if today’s episode resonated with you, could you take 30 seconds? And leave us a review on Apple podcast or on Spotify, wherever you are listening, reviews are the lifeblood of this show. They are how other esthetic professionals find us, and they mean the world to me. Personally, I read every single one. And if you know a spa owner who needs to hear this today, please share this episode with her forward it.

Drop it in your Instagram Stories, send it in a group chat. Let’s get it into the hands of people who need it. Remember, a rising tide floats all boats. Thank you so much for being here, and I will catch you on the next episode.

Well, hello and welcome to the Spa Marketing Made Easy Podcast. I’m Daniela, and boy do I have an interview for you today. So I have a group of friends. They’re all entrepreneurs, and we meet once a month to talk business. This is online, because these are people that are all over the world. Now I love this group. I’m so happy that we found each other. And a few calls ago, Amber was sharing an update. She was she’s the guest on today’s episode, and she was sharing a story with us about this email situation that happened to her company. And if I’m being real, you guys, if this happened to me, I would literally have no idea where to even start. And this is not just like a small email problem. This is something, this is a situation that could have potentially cost her 10s of 1000s of dollars, if not hundreds of 1000s of dollars.

Now she and her team handled it like the pros that they are, and it was such a great reminder going through not only the monthly call that we had with our group of entrepreneurs, but also here on the podcast interview, to know people, to have people in your circle that know more than you is such a valuable thing. You never want to be the biggest fish in the pond and Amber certainly knows so much more than me on this topic, which is why I was so grateful when she so graciously agreed to come on and share this experience. This is not a highlight reel. This is not anything like that. This is real business. These are real problems that come up, and she is being very open and sharing what happened and giving lots of great feedback of what you can do to fix it if something like this ever happens to you. Now, if you do any sort of email marketing at all, you’re going to want to listen in, because Amber is getting real All right. Now, let me just read her bio, and then we will jump right into that interview. Okay, so Amber went from single mom in college to multi business owner running freedom based companies from Ethiopia to Chicago and from Abidjan to Zagreb. With a background in corporate consulting and studies at Johns Hopkins organization develop development MBA program. She helps modern CEOs scale strategically without sacrificing time at Ambermccue.com in addition to consulting, her businesses are in the online children’s education and photography brand that grew from a side hustle to a multi million dollar operation in 26 cities, giving her first hand experience in creating systems that fuel growth and freedom. She’s incredible.

I know you guys are going to love her as much as I do, and let’s go ahead and play that interview. All right, Amber, welcome to the spa marketing Made Easy podcast. So happy to have you here. And I’m so I’m really hoping that we can explain what happened with your email, because I think this is such, such an important aspect of doing business, for business owners, for spa owners, any business owner that is using email to connect with their clients, if you’re trying to do the debrief and figure out, like, what, what’s happening, what’s working, what’s not working. I mean this you blew my mind when you shared with me this process, I was like, Oh, my God, I would not have known what to do. So let’s, let’s go back to and like, tell the story from the beginning, you have an online business. We were both doing a webinar like a launch, very similar timing, and you had done this webinar multiple times before. No issues, you understood what your show up rates, your you know, all your KPIs, and something was drastically off.

Yes, okay, so start there, yes, okay, we are hosting this event and big marketing campaign, and we typically have a certain number of people showing up, arriving throughout the week, number bigger number of people sign up, and lesser people show up to the webinar, the workshops. And we’re noticing it. We’re kind of watching it. But then at the end of the week, people are saying it’s over the events over I signed up for the event, I didn’t get any of the emails, so we already had, like, this intuitive hit, like, something is off, but then when people said we didn’t get the emails, like, So are they responding to you, or are they posting on your social like, how are you hearing this? What?

Yes, great question. A couple of people emailed like, I signed up for this event. I thought it was this week, what’s happening. And then they were also posting in our Facebook community and the thread after that, just kind of like me too, me too. I didn’t get anything either. I didn’t get anything in there, check here, check there, and it wasn’t even landing necessarily in their spam folder, right? Or in their promotions folder, I think we got, I think that’s what blew my mind, is that it wasn’t even in spam. I was like, yeah, yeah, and there’s a reason for that, which we will share.

So, I mean, I’m thinking about this like in spas. We do in person events, we’ll do mini events, we’ll do open houses, and email is a big part of that communication. We do call as well, but I mean the thought process of investing so much time and so much money to host an event, and if your people are not getting the communication, yeah, then they raise their hand and say, I want to come. But then you never you don’t remind them. You don’t tell them, Oh, it’s happening now. And that also, like doesn’t look good on you. From like, you obviously did what you were supposed to do, but from their perspective, like, what? What’s happening? Yeah, you know.

So, okay, so you’re seeing in the group, you’re seeing this thread that’s going through, like, I didn’t get any emails, you know what’s happening? Yeah? So where does your mind go? Well, it’s interesting. My team saw these messages coming in first, and they immediately started investigating, because I was delivering a workshop as like the big flurry starts, it’s happening. And they told me they investigated everything, and they told me, about an hour later, we have a problem. We know what’s happening. We checked all of these things, and we got to the root cause, and so they were on it.

But how does your team like? I feel very proud of my team. I feel like they’re very tech savvy. I feel like I feel like I am tech savvy, and I would not have known where to look with email, I would have thought, do you need to clear your cash? Do you need to turn off the computer and restart? Restart?

Maybe it’s in your trash. Did you set up a filter like the basics? But they we have my business partner and I worked for a an email marketing a marketing agency. So I had done a lot of consulting on email strategy, email marketing, and we partnered and collaborated on a lot of things around this as well. So this really the foundation of this came out of my corporate background, but running an online business, we kind of always had an eye on that and have been watching it ever since.

But for just the normal small business owner, yeah? Like, how do we do like, what are the steps? What were the things that you guys looked at? Let’s look okay, let’s get into that.

Yeah, I’m gonna break it down. I’m gonna try and keep this so simple. And honestly, there are a couple of things that I don’t even understand. So I’ll tell you what when I hit those points. But first up clean email list. So if you are emailing people who are responding, they haven’t opened an email in six months, a year, two years, three years,

I still, I see you, those people with the 20,000 emails on your red bubble, come on, and that is not helping you. So emailing people that are just letting their inbox fill up, you do not want to keep emailing them. And this, we knew this was not our problem, because we are our email. We do not send emails to people who do not open over time. Because what that does is that it tells it tells the email service providers, the gmails, the Yahoos, the hotmails of the world, hey, they’re not opening your email. They don’t want it, so they’re going to move it to that promotions that spam folder over time, if you’re sending the email to enough people that do not open so we do, we use a software called Zero bounce, and we do this once a year. Are you familiar with that software?

I’m not that one specifically, but I’m familiar with software that checks this for you. It helps clean your list, yeah, so it goes through once a year. It removes any of the bots. It removes any like emails that are bouncing, or anything like that. And it’s really inexpensive, yeah, to go through and. We do it once a year and and the first time that we did it, I think, I mean, it was like, 1000s of emails that we got rid of. So I like, your heart sinks a little bit so sad, yeah, but it’s like, you know, what, if those are not real people, or if they’re not, you know, wanting to hear or be in relationship with us, that’s fine. Bless and release.

Lesson, different season people move. Yeah, okay, so clean that clean, clean list. And how do we tell if someone is opening our emails or not? Is that some is that a feature that’s standard inside of a MailChimp kit, whatever type flow desk, whatever type of email service provider you’re choosing, absolutely, yeah, you can see your open rate. So I’ve got 10% 20% 30% 40% open rate, that other percentage that isn’t open some email, some CRMs have this built in so that you can, you can see, run a report, see everyone who hasn’t opened in 90 days.

But otherwise, to your point, there are external plugins you mentioned, zero bounce. Some will integrate right with your CRM where you’re sending emails from, and just quickly pull those people to a separate list, because you might not want to just delete them. You might want to download that list and do some other kind of marketing campaign to those people to say, hey, you haven’t opened our emails in so long. We miss you. Come back a special a promotion, and you can, you can sort of separate that audience before you say farewell in part.

Okay, so clean list. You’ve got that. What’s the next thing? Okay, this is

the one I don’t understand. Really. It’s called, it’s there are three sort of letter three abbreviations, jargon here. SPF, not the sunblock. D, Mark and D Kim, so these are D Mark is the one I hear referred to most often. But what you want to do most email providers that you are sending from the CRM now require you to register your D mark. Okay, so let’s and what this does is it’s a registration in the internets with the email service providers like Gmail, who are receiving emails to say you are legit, you are not inherently spam. You’re registered. This is okay, so, and is that something that your CRM does for you, or is that something that we have to manually do?

Yeah, and your CRM doesn’t do it for you, but it will. There’s usually a place in your CRM to do this, and you might have to pop out somewhere else to register. I told you, I’d be honest, this is the one we’re like, oh, this is one of those things. You do it once, and you’re going to be good for a while, and your CRM likely flagged if you didn’t have this registration, because it came became a requirement. So you should be good. But if you’re, if you’re wondering, and you don’t know, just go double check. And when we saw this email coming up, we went and double check like we fixed this. We fixed it, right? Yeah, we fixed it. And then we had to fix it again. So just if you don’t know, go look this up.

Okay, okay, so clean list. D Mark, what’s number three?

Segmentation. Okay, you do this.

We talk about segmentation all of the time inside of growth factors, so patients, non patients. And then, you know, from that’s like top line, and then below there, we’re breaking out by service that they’re doing by member, non member, if you have a membership base. So we’re really breaking it down in that way. So you’re sell, you’re sending more targeted, focused emails off of behavior, rather than like the the E blast. That is exactly a blast, blast, and this is good because of that first issue that we talked about. If you are sending email to people who don’t want this message and you’re not opening it’s not catching your attention, the gmails of the world are going to say they don’t want it, and that’s going to reduce your effectiveness in your email. So another example of this is i, everybody on my list is getting this email about a promotion, but the promotion only applies to 50% of people, so we only send it to the 50% of people, because that’s just going to help you keep your your list clean.

Now, in our case, we had 3000 people who signed up for this event, but our list is much bigger than that, so we were only sending these emails to the 3000 who. Said, Yes, I would like to receive that communication. I want to participate in this event. Now. We invited our bigger community to it, but they didn’t raise their hand.

They didn’t say yes, so we didn’t keep sending emails. And so we knew that is not our problem. It was not we’re not seeing less people attendance. So it’s just something to be mindful of if, if this group of people have said, No, I never want Botox. Okay, we’re not going to send you Botox specials. We’re going to send you the laser specials, right? So that sort of of alignment, we’re going to educate them on why Botox is your love language. I digress.

Then you already talked about this bounces opt outs. If people are opting out, if their email addresses are bouncing a soft bounce or a hard bounce, a hard bounce would mean the email address doesn’t even exist anymore, right? Soft bounce could be their inbox is full. So that’s coming back to you. Don’t send to those but your CRM that you are sending emails from, should take care of that one, but I share it just so you’re aware.

Okay, what’s next?

Okay, next is domain reputation, so you know what does that mean? Okay, so my email is whatever, whatever, at Amber mchugh.com Amber. It’s actually Amber at Amber mchugh.com and so your domain is the Amber mchugh.com it’s where you’re sending your email from.

And you have a reputation. So you have a reputation for being a good sender or a bad sender. You have a reputation for people opening or not opening, and each of the email service providers has gives you a different score. So Gmail may score you different from AOL. May score you different from Hotmail, etc. Do you? Does anyone? Do you use any of these other emails?

Email, I don’t understand people that don’t have anything.

I’m saying it as an example, but it feels so weird. So there are, I’m sure there are others that I don’t know about. Yes, so you have a reputation, and your reputation is different with each one of these, and that is tied to your Amber mchugh.com now, and so can we see what our reputation is for us?

Okay, you can type in, like, give me a website to check my domain reputation, and you can check that real quick some email CRMs will have that built in, like, we check, I mean random website, wherever, domain reputation checker, whatever, whatever. But your CRM may also have a place for you to check that, like we use go high level, and they have a place inside where they can see, oh, yeah, no, your domain reputation is okay. So green, we’re good. And it might be a green score, green, yellow, red kind of thing, okay? And our domain reputation was also fine. So, like, we’re getting clues, okay, it’s not that, it’s not that, it’s we’re still good on domain reputation. Sometimes, if you’re blasting a lot of emails at once, right? If we were sending to our whole list again, and I’d say, Whoa. This is a lot of emails. This isn’t what you usually send. It might flag. It might hit our domain reputation. We didn’t send to everyone, just a small group. So we were okay. We were still green.

Okay, all right, so your team is going through all of this while you’re on a call.

Yes, I am delivering a workshop to hundreds of people, and there, and there were hundreds. They’re looking at the D Mark your domain reputation. They’re going to town. Good for exactly. This doesn’t most of this doesn’t take long to check.

Well, they’re like, they knew what to check exactly.

Yeah. Okay, you definitely want to know proactive ideal. Are we getting closer to the actual problem? We’re getting closer. We got two more things, okay, spammy subject lines. That’ll move you out.

What determines a spammy subject line? Yeah, sounds salesy. Free, Free. Free. Something can even also get you flagged and moved over to spam or promotions as a first location likely. And there are also so many checkers for this too. So is my subject line spammy? Google it, search it up, chat it up, and you’ll find something to check that also. And we didn’t have that problem. We checked those before.

I guess that would also be for a lot of our people are using custom gpts to create their emails on the first draft, and so they’re putting in, like the you know, all of you could put in the prompt of make sure that the site. Subject line is not spammy according to, yeah, yeah, according to guidelines, and sometimes Claude, Chachi P will come out, will come up with something that’s kind of spammy. And then you ask them, and they’re like, oh, yeah, you’re right. Maybe we should change that so you can just pressure test it and pressure test it in an external tool.

Okay, okay, so spamming headlines, and then are we like, drum roll at the pig roll and this one? Ah. So the big issue is it’s an issue for all of us, really, or for most of us. And when we are sending emails through a CRM, you are likely sending an email from a shared IP address. So let’s say you live at in the IP address structure is a little bit weird. It’s like one, nine, 9.77, 7.832.

I live in Silver Spring Maryland. You live in Silver Spring Maryland, and you’re sending mail from Silver Spring Maryland, but so are other people. So if Silver Spring Maryland became known for sending all sorts of spam, or email service providers were like, Hey, that that email that comes from Silver Spring Maryland, it always looks a little fishy. You might be sending emails that are not fishy at all, but your neighbor is and your other neighbor, and then the person across the street and like you’re making me look bad everybody, what you’re saying is this is all your neighbor’s fault. Yeah, I’m blaming the neighbor. But you know, when we look at all those other things, we’re okay, we’re okay, we’re okay, we’re not okay when it falls down to that, if your neighbor is not checking this whole list that we just looked at, you’re all sending email from Silver Spring, Maryland. You’re all sending email from the same IP address. And if one person is like blasting spam, if one person, even if they get hacked, they might not even do it intentionally. They might get hacked. Or if one person doesn’t maintain their domain reputation, it can bring, it’s going to bring the whole IP address down.

So what about so are you using, like, what if you use a VPN or something like, that doesn’t matter. Matter because, because it you can put a VPN on, but you are still in Silver Spring Maryland. You cannot hide this fact in this scenario. And what happens is, it’s not tied to your computer and your physical location. It is coming from your CRM. You’re not so our house scenario doesn’t quite work, because you’re not sending email from your house, you’re sending email through your CRM who actually kicks it out for you. So our CRMs have us on these shared email addresses or shared IP addresses, and what they what should be happening is they should be regularly monitoring them. And here’s what happened. We got down to the IP address, and we’re like, Oh, check this. Our IP address was blacklisted.

So how do you what does that mean? And how do you even find that out? And then, how do you fix it? You put it in a checker, another checker online, all sorts of free checkers on this, and then there’ll be options to get it fixed and upgrade, etc. But there, I think it’s like white list checker.com because you want to make sure you are not blacklisted. So check my IP address and make sure I am not blacklisted, or check the health of my IP address. And so you pop that in there, and you find out, Oh, you’re good again. It might be a green, red, yellow, green. It might be, if you’re blacklisted for us, it was like a big, sad red X and like, oh, well, that’s not good what we do. And I only knew this and know this because when I was working in corporate, on big accounts, we would monitor the health of all of these things. And so we got to this point, we’re like, okay, that is not us. We’re on a shared IP address. We’ve got to go back to our CRM, and they should be monitoring and if something gets blacklisted, they should change the IP address. Or if there’s someone on the block who is sending a lot of spam, hey, you’re making us all look bad on this IP address. You got to stop that. So they should be reviewing it and checking this regularly. So you can probably ask your CRM about this, your MailChimp, your flow desk, etc, and they should have a protocol in place for this. And maybe we just got caught in this window of, oh shoot like black, and they were in the process of catching it and changing it.

After we came after we discovered this, we, of course, reached out like you missed this. We need to get this updated. And of course they did. And is there the How else can you protect against this? Do I have to share my IP address? So I’m already thinking. Like, how would I build this into so in our we have systems that we do for like spa CEOs, and there’s the things that you do daily, the things that you do weekly, the things you do monthly, quarterly, biannually and annually. And I feel like the there’s a couple things that would maybe be biannual and a couple things that would be annual of just even like reviewing, is this correct?

Is this so for those of you in growth factor, if you have your CEO routines boards, I would be adding this right now, of clicking on that and adding, you know, checking the the the zero bounce, like, I don’t know exactly what all of these things are are called, but we’ll, we’ll do a recap of of them, and I would get them added in there in a regular basis, because I would so much rather be, like, proactive in a situation like this, then be forced into a situation where you have to, like, be reactive and solve the problem exactly right? Because percent, you know, I mean, I know you had, like, hundreds of people that didn’t get the email, and then, yes, you did another webinar to accommodate. But like, how many people did you lose from that you know? Like, yeah, you never know, you never know. And that was not something that was your fault. It was not something that you know, like you were not spent sending spammy messages. It was just thankfully you knew how to fix it, and didn’t just continue down that path and be like, What in the world is happening?

I know because we beat ourselves up like, oh, it’s not working. What did I do? What did we know? It was pretty clear, especially when people said, I’m not even getting these emails. I checked my spam. I checked my, you know, everywhere promotions, I checked my trash. Because what happens when you’re blacklisted is that Gmail isn’t even letting that go through. It’s not there’s no you cannot pass this threshold at all if your IP address is blacklisted. So it’s one of those things that most people were getting our emails, and then all of the sudden they weren’t.

And yeah, it’s this whole conversation. What it’s bringing up for me is like, so I talk with so many spa owners who are upset or nervous when someone unsubscribes, and I’m like, No, that’s like, the best thing that can happen if it’s someone who does not want your service or does not want to be in relationship with you, the Most Gracious thing they can do is unsubscribe. It’s like bless and release, move on, because it sounds like if they’re just staying on and not opening the emails and letting them clutter up, it’s actually hurting your business longer term.

Yep, absolutely. I mean, there’s, there’s a reframe right there, yeah. And, I mean, there are so many reasons why people unsubscribe. I, you know, we move so much that all the time, like, Oh, that was great. I still tell some accounts on Instagram, like, I really could let you go. I can’t yet. I’m just hanging out. I’m not necessarily helping, but I’m just hanging on.

So what did you learn from this like, in this process of going through like, how did you update your pre launch systems? Did you put any like? What were the like when you went through the debrief of this whole situation with your team. Obviously, you’re praising them for like, I mean, shout out to the team.

We figured it out. Oh, okay, still don’t like it. Yes, we all felt it together.

Yeah, that’s, that’s entrepreneurship though. I mean, like, there’s your job as an entrepreneur is to put out fire after fire after fire. That’s, that’s what it is. And so by doing that, like, but I’m just curious, like, how you I always find I’m like, Yeah, we put out a fire and then we figure out how to not make it repeatable, yeah. And that’s where the systems aspect comes in, yeah.

So we had checks on all of these things in place, and really the IP address was sort of the lingering one, so all those other things, yeah, we know we’re checking we’re good, we’re good, we’re good. We’re watching it all the time. And so we’ve been looking into the IP address situation, and there is an option, and this is not the best option for everyone, and it’s actually possibly not an option for us right now to move to a dedicated IP where you’re not sharing where Silver Spring Maryland is yours, all yours. So if you muck it up, you mocked it up all in your own right. You’re not mixed in with anyone. And the recommendation on Deaf. Indicated IP addresses is that you’re sending over 100,000 emails a month, and there are some other things with that you have, and some other responsibilities that come with that. You’ve got to warm it up. You can’t, you know, got to make sure you’re not sending the spam and the cold and all those other things that we talked through. So we’re looking out. Do we qualify? Does that work for us? Does it not work for us? Does it make sense? Does it not because if you’re not giving enough information to the ESP, the gmails of the world, your dedicated IP address might not work either. So they need enough information to sort of score you and assess you. And so that is our next step, and if we can’t move to a dedicated IP address, or it doesn’t make sense to we are also going back to be like, how are we going to fix this yellow because this week, we looked again. We checked our IP address because of client, wrote in and said, Hey, your email went funny again, like, oh no. And honestly, there are you can send emails right, send emails to another email account that you have, right, a separate Gmail account, not the one where you’re always watching and opening your own email, but a separate one where you can kind of test where did that go, and check it. But a client caught it before us, and we’re like, Oh, man. So we opened it back up. We are yellow again. We’re not red, we’re not green, we’re yellow, which means, okay, you’re just a little bit more on alert. And we don’t want to be on alert, right?

I mean, that’s when you’re doing an online business, or any, I mean, any business, for that matter, there’s so many digital components to it. I’m thinking of spas that have E comm stores. I’m thinking of Spa you know, like online booking confirmation for those things. I mean, your email is the link, yeah, down.

Someone doesn’t get their confirmation that they just booked. So it’s not on their calendar. They don’t show up.

Yeah, my goodness. Okay. Well, I am so grateful to you this as as I said before, when you shared that in our mastermind call, I was like, Oh, my God. It was like. I was like, man, I’ve been doing this for 12 years, I thought I knew something, and I had, I had no idea that was like a brand new world for me. So I knew, I mean, I was like, Okay, I’ve got to share this with our listeners. I’ve got to get that like that was something that just blew my mind. So I appreciate you being so open and sharing with such generosity. Can you share where our listeners can find you and follow you if they want to keep in touch?

Absolutely, I would love to connect. I’m on Instagram at Amber McHugh, same place on YouTube, and my website’s Amber mchugh.com so easy.

Love it. Thank you so so much, and we will catch you all in the next episode.